It's been a long long time ever since my last post, jx, jj, tim are all waiting for my new post! haha.
After the long and stressful semester [ includes 12 projects and 1 exam paper], i am finally having my holidays.
Lets see what i have done so far in during my holidays..
1) Made a bet with Sue Ying to lose 5kg by the end of the holidays.
2) Found a job at Cathay Cineleisure [Orchard]
3) Worked for 3 days at Cathay Cineleisure [Orchard]
4) and QUITTED the job on the 4th day. [ZZZOMG WHY?!]
Reason being: I think that i could have found a better paying job and concentrate on what I can do, for eg. Teach music. and earn some bucks from this area.
During my 3 days of work at Cathay:
On the first day, me, jx, jj and jessica went for our training. There was this super duper long video on the various job scopes a customer service officer has to do and an overall view on how a cineplex works. We met this trainer, Andrew. The first thing i would like to comment is that, he is a very knowledgeable person with lots of experience. Whatever he says has a meaning behind it. For example, " When people are gossiping, do not try to join in the gossip and spread it around. But, you should just, sit back and enjoy the gossips, don't interfere."
After listening to such advice from an experienced person, i am starting to see issues and things from another perspective. And some how, i am able to see through people's characters too. My motto is, explore every possibility! who knows that smallest rock that has not been turned is the very truth and answer. Hm...some how, i feel like i am distancing myself from some people. I'm not sure if that is the way after sort of seeing through their motives? Or, is it just me?
Questions questions questions.... sigh. I guess i shall take each question one by a time.
Oh yeah. On the second day, there was nothing much to it other than just collecting money and printing out tickets for people at the Box Office.
On the third day, all of us were split into 3 groups with the other trainees. We started at 12pm. Firstly, i was deployed to the F&B section to work. I learnt how to make hotdogs, popcorn, fried chicken, potato wedges. Quite a lot of things to leanr there. Making the hotdogs was the hardest. The person in charge asked me to make 10 jumbo hotdogs at one go! gosh! Me and myself, making the hotdogs. My partner was inside the kitchen frying 64 pieces of chicken. i guess i can't complain. haha.
After which, it was around 3.20pm before my partner [Alvin] and i was sent up to the ushering point to do usher. ushering was fun too. it was one of the least taxing job.
by 5.45pm, i was asked to go for a break. mind you! i had nothing for breakfast and lunch! i was starving! i had subway for my breakfast,lunch and dinner combined into 1.
geee....
thats all for my job for the 3 days. right now, i am still awaiting application to teach music at primary schools. If all else fails, then i shall concentrate on losing weight through out the whole holidays and lose more than 5 kg! my aim is: WEAR SIZE 29 PANTS.
TOODLES!
Bryant...
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
gotta say what’s on my mind.
Something about us, doesn’t seem right... these days.
Life keeps getting in the way.
Whenever we try,somehow the plan is always rearranged.
It’s so hard to say,
but I gotta do what’s best for me.
You’ll be okay...
I’ve got to move on, and be who I am.
I just don’t belong here,
I hope you understand.
We might find a place in this world someday,
but at least for now,
I gotta go my own way.
Don’t wanna leave it all behind.
But I get my hopes up and I watch them fall every time.
Another color turns to grey.
And it’s just too hard... to watch it all... slowly fade away.
I'm leaving today
Cause I gotta do what’s best for me.
You’ll be okay...
I’ve got to move on, and be who I am.
I just don’t belong here,
I hope you understand.
We might find a place in this world someday,but at least for now,I gotta go my own way.
What about everything we’ve been through?
what about trust?
You know I never wanted to hurt you.
What about me?
What am I supposed to do?
I gotta leave but I’ll miss you
...miss you.
So I’ve got to move on, and be who I am.
(why do you have to go)
I just don’t belong here,I hope you understand.
(trying to understand)
but at least for now,
(I want you to stay)
I gotta go my own way.
I’ve got to move on, and be who I am.
(what about us?)
I just don’t belong here,I hope you understand.
(try to understand)
We might find a place in this world someday.
but at least for now,I gotta go my own way.
I gotta go my own way,
I gotta go my own way...
Monday, January 14, 2008
I AM FUCKING FUCKED UP AND STRESSED AT THE MOMENT. I AM NOT GETTING ANY SHIT COOPERATION FROM THE PEOPLE. [YOU KNOW YOURSELF!] IS COOPERATING WITH ME SUCH A HARD THING TO DO? YOU DON'T COOPERATE YOU MAKE THINGS HARDER FOR ME TO DO. NEED ME TO CALL U INDIVIDUALLY ISSIT. BLOODY HELL DO WHAT I SAY CAN! ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ..................
FUCKED OFF.
BRYANT
FUCKED OFF.
BRYANT
Saturday, December 08, 2007
Now i am very busy with many projects like Child Development: Application Project, my Field Practicum 1.2 project, my Creative Arts project, the Language Arts Project and also GLOBAL ISSUES individual and GROUP project. some of them are all due on the same week and same day!! now, isn't irritating?
However, at least i still have got the Celebrazione concert to look forward to. its 14 days to the concert!!! Let's all work hard and I shall work hard too!
However, at least i still have got the Celebrazione concert to look forward to. its 14 days to the concert!!! Let's all work hard and I shall work hard too!
Bryant
Sunday, December 02, 2007
Howdy! I'm still coping with all the feelings and stuff. Thanks to all those who showed concern. =)
anyway, on friday, a group of us. ME, Tim, Aloy, JinJin, Sue Ying played badminton. It was fun! then afterwards, Aloy, ME, Tim and Sue Ying jogged around the track. sue ying jogged 1 round and the rest of us jogged 4 rounds! 1.6km! haha. not bad. it felt great!
then after that, we all went to Sun Set Way to eat a LARGE LARGE pizza. It was so feeling! haha. oh yea. Jing Xiang and Kenrick came along after their activities in school.
Pictures of pizza coming up in next post!
saturday [1st december]
A group of us went to EXPO's SITEX fair. namely, ME, Jing Xiang and his friend, Jocelyn, Jin Jin, Kenrick[joined us later]. Jing Xiang, ME and Jocelyn bought overselves a 120GB SeaGate external hard drive for just $129!! what a bargain!
today!! [2nd december]
SHOPPING DAY!!!
A few K.E people went to orchard to buy our concert clothes. Namely, ME, Nikos, Jing Xiang, Aloy, Pak Wing, TIM, Jin Jin, Jocelyn, Mingli, [Jessica joined us later].
We bought almost all our stuff. Shirt, TIES and socks. all bought!
Pictures coming up in next post!! do check back!
Bryant
anyway, on friday, a group of us. ME, Tim, Aloy, JinJin, Sue Ying played badminton. It was fun! then afterwards, Aloy, ME, Tim and Sue Ying jogged around the track. sue ying jogged 1 round and the rest of us jogged 4 rounds! 1.6km! haha. not bad. it felt great!
then after that, we all went to Sun Set Way to eat a LARGE LARGE pizza. It was so feeling! haha. oh yea. Jing Xiang and Kenrick came along after their activities in school.
Pictures of pizza coming up in next post!
saturday [1st december]
A group of us went to EXPO's SITEX fair. namely, ME, Jing Xiang and his friend, Jocelyn, Jin Jin, Kenrick[joined us later]. Jing Xiang, ME and Jocelyn bought overselves a 120GB SeaGate external hard drive for just $129!! what a bargain!
today!! [2nd december]
SHOPPING DAY!!!
A few K.E people went to orchard to buy our concert clothes. Namely, ME, Nikos, Jing Xiang, Aloy, Pak Wing, TIM, Jin Jin, Jocelyn, Mingli, [Jessica joined us later].
We bought almost all our stuff. Shirt, TIES and socks. all bought!
Pictures coming up in next post!! do check back!
Bryant
Thursday, November 29, 2007
I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house
That don’t bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let them out
I’m not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again I pretend I’m ok
But that’s not what gets me
What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin’ to do
It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I’m doin’ It
It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m alone
Still Harder
Getting up, getting dressed, livin’ with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart
That I left unspoken
What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do
What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do
(Not seeing that loving you)
That’s what I was trying to do
That don’t bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let them out
I’m not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again I pretend I’m ok
But that’s not what gets me
What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin’ to do
It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I’m doin’ It
It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m alone
Still Harder
Getting up, getting dressed, livin’ with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart
That I left unspoken
What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do
What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do
(Not seeing that loving you)
That’s what I was trying to do
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Feelings... what are they? such a mere emotion can cause us[ HUMANS, SLAVES OF FEELINGS ] to be so troubled, so occupied with it, wallowing in it and not focusing on the goal right in front of us.
Yet again, with such a distracting emotion, how is one supposed to conquer it? Find other distractions and live in self-denial? On the contrary, sticking to that emotion would lead to a likely commotion and a mess.
How will this slave of feelings settle this? Sit on the fine line that separates feelings and being empty on the inside?
AND
Why is Feelings coming to find me at this point of time??
Yet again, with such a distracting emotion, how is one supposed to conquer it? Find other distractions and live in self-denial? On the contrary, sticking to that emotion would lead to a likely commotion and a mess.
How will this slave of feelings settle this? Sit on the fine line that separates feelings and being empty on the inside?
AND
Why is Feelings coming to find me at this point of time??
Weihan
Saturday, November 24, 2007
it's a lazy saturday afternoon and i seriously have nothing to do!!
here's something interesting for you guys.
Look at this interesting chair which you can find at City Hall Mrt.
Oh wait. It does not pass off as a chair. Not even a bench!
Have you sat on one of these benches before? They look awfully familiar don't they?
Have you sat on one of these benches before? They look awfully familiar don't they?
You rest your butt on it and you keep sliding down. Right?
so.... let me teach you how to sit on the butt rest.
Two EASY STEPS!
First step, put butt on bench.
Second step, react accordingly.
haha. now. isn't that interesting? haha.
oh yeah. Yesterday, i had an exercise session with my K.E buddies! Namely, ME, jin jin, Nikos, Sue Ying, Timothy, Whey Jian and Yong Hui. Oh yeah. Kenrick too! he joined us later.
We all had basketball. Everyone was like beginner-type for basketball except for Timothy and Whey Jian. haha.....
After that, we had volleyball session. That was super fun. pushing the volley up and hittin it across. haha! I had a 1.6km run+ jog. I AM DETERMINED TO LOSE SOME MORE WEIGHT. i lost 5kg since last month until now!
But alas! we had pizza hut for dinner. Lots of cheese and chilli powder dashed on our pizza. Oh yea. tim left with his friends for dinner, Jing Xiang and Jocelyn joined us for dinner. haha.
here is a pic of our yummy pizza!
That's all for today. i think i shall go tacke Fantasie Impromptu. =)
Bryant
Thursday, November 22, 2007
It's been quite some time since my last post.
I would like to give my thanks to those who have helped me through this trouble i had last week.
The first person to thank would be Nikos. He has helped me loads, he is a good listener and has given me lots of constructive advice. If not, my relationship with my dad would not have been better today.
Next, this group of people who listened to me. Namely, they are: the 4 J's ( Jing Xiang, Jin Jin, Jocelyn, Jessica), Pak Wing, Kenrick and Sue Ying. *if i have left out anybody here. Please let me know. i will add you name in. Leaving out your name is not on purpose. haha*
After that day i stayed out at Nikos's place, when i went home the next day after the letter to my dad was given. Dad treated me differently. Initially, I felt awkward because, the silence was too unusual. Thus, i had to initiate a conversation with dad. I felt rather f.a.k.e at that moment. But after a few weeks, things have turned out better. My dad is not nagging me for the slightest thing. I guess, since dad has changed, i must make an effort to show some changes to him. Speaking of changing, i think i MUST and HAVE TO correct my habit of being late. I think everyone around knows. I shall show you guys soon that i will change!
Okay! so now, moving on the long awaited birthday photo's!
I would like to give my thanks to those who have helped me through this trouble i had last week.
The first person to thank would be Nikos. He has helped me loads, he is a good listener and has given me lots of constructive advice. If not, my relationship with my dad would not have been better today.
Next, this group of people who listened to me. Namely, they are: the 4 J's ( Jing Xiang, Jin Jin, Jocelyn, Jessica), Pak Wing, Kenrick and Sue Ying. *if i have left out anybody here. Please let me know. i will add you name in. Leaving out your name is not on purpose. haha*
After that day i stayed out at Nikos's place, when i went home the next day after the letter to my dad was given. Dad treated me differently. Initially, I felt awkward because, the silence was too unusual. Thus, i had to initiate a conversation with dad. I felt rather f.a.k.e at that moment. But after a few weeks, things have turned out better. My dad is not nagging me for the slightest thing. I guess, since dad has changed, i must make an effort to show some changes to him. Speaking of changing, i think i MUST and HAVE TO correct my habit of being late. I think everyone around knows. I shall show you guys soon that i will change!
Okay! so now, moving on the long awaited birthday photo's!
The sub comm people!
From left to right
Jing xiang, Nikos, ME, Ming Li,Vincent, Evelyn, Jin Jin and Sue Ying *bang!*
Oh boy! Starting up the fire sure took a long time!
This is the reason why the wedding ring sits on your 4th finger.
Group Photo. But not everyone is in it. The staircase railing might crumple. haha!
Another one! Watch it Kenrick! dun fall!
That's all for the pictures! i will put all of them on my photobucket to view on a later date!
Just a reminder to all Klavier people that. it is 28 days to the concert after today!!!! Are you Excited already? haha. All the best for practicing people!!!
Bryant
=)
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Firstly i gotta say that, i had a bloody sore eye yesterday. It's not because i watch porn or anything, but because i took out my dry contact lenses and the contact lense kinda cut or did something to my cornea. it bloody hurt! then in the evening, around 8pm or so, i found out that i was feverish. What a nice way to kick off the week; MONDAY BLUES some more!
Secondly, lets say, on the surface, my dad and i seem to be talking nicely to each other. Lets see how things turn out the rest of the week. If not, something will happen. A revolution perhaps. now things seem to have escalated. Maybe from the start i should have just kept my mouth shut.
Sigh.....my growing up pains. so depressing. i am not wallowing in self-pity or anything. I think can't keep listening to the things every day.
...................
Secondly, lets say, on the surface, my dad and i seem to be talking nicely to each other. Lets see how things turn out the rest of the week. If not, something will happen. A revolution perhaps. now things seem to have escalated. Maybe from the start i should have just kept my mouth shut.
Sigh.....my growing up pains. so depressing. i am not wallowing in self-pity or anything. I think can't keep listening to the things every day.
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Saturday, November 10, 2007
Thursday, November 08, 2007
I know, the pictures are not up yet. lol. and i have yet to get the pictures from Raphael! Never mind! this week was eventful!
Check out the Youtube link below!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZm-d3ZFRR4
I am not putting th video here because it will totally lag the whole blog. so, please click on the link above to see what i have been doing during CCA! [ Klavierensemble]
Besides that, this semesters will start getting busier and busier. Now, i am actually sleeping 6 hours each day. As the weeks pass, 4 or 5 hours of sleep might even be possible!
Monday= Klavier day!
Tuesday= Attachment day + study with Klavier day!
Wednesday= Klavier day!
Thursday= SIAN day!
Friday= Sian + study with Klavier day!
Saturday= ZOMG. BORING DAY!
Sunday= PKS day and maybe KLAVIER DAY TOO!
LOL! can you see how much my life revolves already MY CCA?!
I LOVE MY CCA! TRULY MADLY DEEPLY LOVE KE!! haha.....
Oh yea. today is DEEPAVALI. And....i still have E-learning to do. ZZzzzzzZzzz...... 4 articles to summarize and send to the lecturer by 23:59...
okay okay...just when i turn 18, so many issues with my dad start popping up everywhere! its either, i am getting more irresponsible or he is getting naggier!!
Anyway, mum's leaving for china tomorrow. and she is having steamboat at home and KLAVIER IS HAVING STEAMBOAT TOO! HOW?
DILEMMA!!!
WEIHAN ZOOMS AWAY!!!
Check out the Youtube link below!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZm-d3ZFRR4
I am not putting th video here because it will totally lag the whole blog. so, please click on the link above to see what i have been doing during CCA! [ Klavierensemble]
Besides that, this semesters will start getting busier and busier. Now, i am actually sleeping 6 hours each day. As the weeks pass, 4 or 5 hours of sleep might even be possible!
Monday= Klavier day!
Tuesday= Attachment day + study with Klavier day!
Wednesday= Klavier day!
Thursday= SIAN day!
Friday= Sian + study with Klavier day!
Saturday= ZOMG. BORING DAY!
Sunday= PKS day and maybe KLAVIER DAY TOO!
LOL! can you see how much my life revolves already MY CCA?!
I LOVE MY CCA! TRULY MADLY DEEPLY LOVE KE!! haha.....
Oh yea. today is DEEPAVALI. And....i still have E-learning to do. ZZzzzzzZzzz...... 4 articles to summarize and send to the lecturer by 23:59...
okay okay...just when i turn 18, so many issues with my dad start popping up everywhere! its either, i am getting more irresponsible or he is getting naggier!!
Anyway, mum's leaving for china tomorrow. and she is having steamboat at home and KLAVIER IS HAVING STEAMBOAT TOO! HOW?
DILEMMA!!!
WEIHAN ZOOMS AWAY!!!
Thursday, November 01, 2007
Hey all! it has been half an october since i last updated. Last Friday, 26/10/2007 was my 18th birthday! Everyone please wait a little longer okay? I know how much u guys want to see what i post up. haha. Just wait until i get the pictures from Raphael. Haha. Meanwhile...
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Saturday, October 06, 2007
I am back from Klavier Ensemble camp! I am proud to say that the camp was one of the most action packed and most of all FUN CAMP i have been to. COOL SIAH.
Anyway, the camp was on the 1st to 3rd october.
4 of us + me, namingly, Kenrick, Nikos, Sue Ying and ME! has a pre-camp session. which means that we stayed over on the 30th of SEPTEMBER to plan stuffs for the concert audition the next day. IT WAS SO FREAKING COOL! although, something spooked all of us out. all four of us heard a high pitch voice, singing something which did not resemble a tune or song. THAT WAS SO FREAKY.
All in all, the camp really bonded us closer, from strangers to friends and also from friends to good friends! I think, i am more bonded with my good friends now than my course mates! SERIOUS! I don't think i am the only one with this mentality. haha.
Here are some of the new "names" i obtained throughout the camp.
1) 铁扇王子
2) Tua Pek Gong also known as 大牌公! haha!
3) Jing Han
Here are my GOALS for rest of the year!:
1) Either maintain my GPA or do even better and get a 4.0!
2) Compose a song.
3) Improve on my piano skills.
4) Quickly take the Highway Code exam and drive a car soon!
5) .......can't think of anymore this moment........
I DO HOPE I WILL MEET my GOALS!
Thats all for now. =D
Bryant....signing off!
Anyway, the camp was on the 1st to 3rd october.
4 of us + me, namingly, Kenrick, Nikos, Sue Ying and ME! has a pre-camp session. which means that we stayed over on the 30th of SEPTEMBER to plan stuffs for the concert audition the next day. IT WAS SO FREAKING COOL! although, something spooked all of us out. all four of us heard a high pitch voice, singing something which did not resemble a tune or song. THAT WAS SO FREAKY.
All in all, the camp really bonded us closer, from strangers to friends and also from friends to good friends! I think, i am more bonded with my good friends now than my course mates! SERIOUS! I don't think i am the only one with this mentality. haha.
Here are some of the new "names" i obtained throughout the camp.
1) 铁扇王子
2) Tua Pek Gong also known as 大牌公! haha!
3) Jing Han
Here are my GOALS for rest of the year!:
1) Either maintain my GPA or do even better and get a 4.0!
2) Compose a song.
3) Improve on my piano skills.
4) Quickly take the Highway Code exam and drive a car soon!
5) .......can't think of anymore this moment........
I DO HOPE I WILL MEET my GOALS!
Thats all for now. =D
Bryant....signing off!
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Howdy! I think, it's been ages since i actually updated my blog. haha. people miss my blog mah. what to do. LOL!
ok lah. firstly, the exams i dare say was quite challenging, but i think i mananged it quite all right.
so, yea. here are my exam results...in black and white.
1) Field Practicum 1.1 A+
2) Functional English B
3) Introduction to Child Dev. A
4) IT & Applications 1 A
5) Play & Motor Skills Devt. for Young Children B+
6) Principles & Practices of Classrm MGT 1.1 A
7) Sports and Wellness PX
My overall GPA 3.8333.
yup. there it is. I will have to work even harder next semester if i want to have 4 for GPA.
OH YES. i have a new member in the family. Guess who?
haha.
ITS METTA! my KITTEN! haha.. she never fails to amuse all of us.
However! She gets on our nerves at times, what to do? she is just an animal.
yea! third thing! My Grade 8 Piano Exams has long passed. I wonder how i will fair.
hmm.....
thats all!
until next time!
Bryant signing off!
ok lah. firstly, the exams i dare say was quite challenging, but i think i mananged it quite all right.
so, yea. here are my exam results...in black and white.
1) Field Practicum 1.1 A+
2) Functional English B
3) Introduction to Child Dev. A
4) IT & Applications 1 A
5) Play & Motor Skills Devt. for Young Children B+
6) Principles & Practices of Classrm MGT 1.1 A
7) Sports and Wellness PX
My overall GPA 3.8333.
yup. there it is. I will have to work even harder next semester if i want to have 4 for GPA.
OH YES. i have a new member in the family. Guess who?
haha.
ITS METTA! my KITTEN! haha.. she never fails to amuse all of us.
However! She gets on our nerves at times, what to do? she is just an animal.
yea! third thing! My Grade 8 Piano Exams has long passed. I wonder how i will fair.
hmm.....
thats all!
until next time!
Bryant signing off!
Friday, July 27, 2007
Crap..last sunday, i had a terrible back ache, i thought it would disappear on monday, but it did not. I wanted to go jogging after Functional English lesson. But, the terrible back ache prevented me from doing so.
The pain is bearable but, IRRITATING. I can't sit or stand for long, i can't even lift up my leg while seated without feeling pain in my back.
I am worried about whether this pain would affect my project because, it really hurts. As i am typing this, i am tolerating the pains from my back.
Today, i went to the chinese physician at Ang Mo Kio to see what happened. I was quite shocked when i learnt that, i pulled the Vein or something that was near the spinal cord, straining my LambDa 4 disc or something like that. Scary~~!!
okay, it's late. I AM GOING TO BED. NIGHT.
Buddha Bless ME!
Bryant
The pain is bearable but, IRRITATING. I can't sit or stand for long, i can't even lift up my leg while seated without feeling pain in my back.
I am worried about whether this pain would affect my project because, it really hurts. As i am typing this, i am tolerating the pains from my back.
Today, i went to the chinese physician at Ang Mo Kio to see what happened. I was quite shocked when i learnt that, i pulled the Vein or something that was near the spinal cord, straining my LambDa 4 disc or something like that. Scary~~!!
okay, it's late. I AM GOING TO BED. NIGHT.
Buddha Bless ME!
Bryant
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Friday, July 13, 2007
I think, when i blog, i would try to blog on something interesting other than just my daily MUNDANE stuff. anyway, just something to comment about. The world is getting weirder! you get maids asking DOGS to eat properly... you get people hugging each other on the escalator even though the distance between the current floor to the next floor is short, why the hugging? Do they love each other so much that they would want to show the "whole world" their love? ....sheesh!!!! >.< LOL. anyway, maybe because today is Friday 13. From my point of view Friday 13 is not a Bad Omen or anything that many people view it as... Friday 13 is just like any other day. Numbers numbers numbers... GEE... haha.... anyway, maybe should the perception of how people view Friday 13. Maybe i should make Friday 13 NO MEAT day! haha!
Today's topic:
Do you assess someone by their looks the first time you make acquaintance?
Have you ever observed anyone or yourself of this behavior? When you step into a room with many people, then you survey the surroundings and then the people?
When you manage to find a sit in the room, you HAPPEN to strike up a conversation with a stranger.
*NOW, PAUSE RIGHT THERE...*
Look at the time frame of between the time you sit down and strike up a conversation.
What did you do before you spoke to the stranger?
Did you stare at the person from head to toe to see how well dressed he or she was?
Then after, did you smile genuinely or just pass off a fake smile?
Did you adjust the tone of your voice, style of speaking or standard of the language used?
Humans are very contradicting people. Verbally, many might say that they do not assess anybody when they make an acquaintance. The irony is, in the person's mind, they are sub-consciously making observations of others and then sizing them up.
On the other hand, there MIGHT be people who don't size other people up such as asking questions like, where do you work? what do you work as? how much do you get paid a month? where do you live? [ from the question where do you live sorts of gives the questioner an idea how rich the person being questioned is. just to indirectly get the person to tell you what kind of house the other party lives in, the next question would most likely be], Oh i see! so you live in a Bungalow right? [Even if the "asssumption" is wrong, the other party would most likely correct the questioner or agree if thats the truth that he stays in a Bungalow.]
Furthermore, such people who don't size up other people would definitely just strike up a conversation with an acquaintance just to widen one's circle of friends.
then again, [off-topic] if strikes up a conversation with an acquaintance just to widen one's circle of friends, then isn't there a motive?
All right! enough of this. Please suggest to me what topic you guys would like to discuss in my TAGBOARD. Haha... if not i shall come up with another topic of mine. =D
Weihan...
Today's topic:
Do you assess someone by their looks the first time you make acquaintance?
Have you ever observed anyone or yourself of this behavior? When you step into a room with many people, then you survey the surroundings and then the people?
When you manage to find a sit in the room, you HAPPEN to strike up a conversation with a stranger.
*NOW, PAUSE RIGHT THERE...*
Look at the time frame of between the time you sit down and strike up a conversation.
What did you do before you spoke to the stranger?
Did you stare at the person from head to toe to see how well dressed he or she was?
Then after, did you smile genuinely or just pass off a fake smile?
Did you adjust the tone of your voice, style of speaking or standard of the language used?
Humans are very contradicting people. Verbally, many might say that they do not assess anybody when they make an acquaintance. The irony is, in the person's mind, they are sub-consciously making observations of others and then sizing them up.
On the other hand, there MIGHT be people who don't size other people up such as asking questions like, where do you work? what do you work as? how much do you get paid a month? where do you live? [ from the question where do you live sorts of gives the questioner an idea how rich the person being questioned is. just to indirectly get the person to tell you what kind of house the other party lives in, the next question would most likely be], Oh i see! so you live in a Bungalow right? [Even if the "asssumption" is wrong, the other party would most likely correct the questioner or agree if thats the truth that he stays in a Bungalow.]
Furthermore, such people who don't size up other people would definitely just strike up a conversation with an acquaintance just to widen one's circle of friends.
then again, [off-topic] if strikes up a conversation with an acquaintance just to widen one's circle of friends, then isn't there a motive?
All right! enough of this. Please suggest to me what topic you guys would like to discuss in my TAGBOARD. Haha... if not i shall come up with another topic of mine. =D
Weihan...
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