Friday, May 29, 2009
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Random Friend says:
is this a valid question
Random Friend says:
i would solve it by positive reinforcement.. DIG SOMeMORE..WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN NEXT? 1) UR NOSE BLEED, 2) U HAVE ENLARGED NOSE HOLE 3) U WILL FIND SOME GOOEY STUFF, 4) U CAN BREATHE BETTER 5) U REALISE THAT UR FINGER CAN ACTUALLY FIT
Random Friend says:
ohh its not nose hole btw..
Random Friend says:
its nostrils
Random Friend says:
lols
Bryant says:
LOL
Random Friend says:
u know they need concrete experiences
Random Friend says:
let them try lar
Bryant says:
LOLL
Bryant says:
has the one page belief driven u mad
Bryant says:
LOL
Random Friend says:
no lar
Random Friend says:
still saint
Random Friend says:
haha
Random Friend says:
but u see.. digging nose its quite a holistic approach leh
Random Friend says:
emotionally they feel good
Random Friend says:
physically its fine motor and manipulative.
Bryant says:
LOLL
Random Friend says:
Intellectually they know that their finger can fit and it can clear their nose
Bryant says:
and cognitive u know!
Random Friend says:
socially they can do it tog
Random Friend says:
mass digging
Bryant says:
because they have to put a mental image in their brain to picture where their nose shit is
Bryant says:
lol
Random Friend says:
yess..
Random Friend says:
haha
Bryant says:
emotionally also
Bryant says:
have getting the shit out
Bryant says:
they feel damn successful
Random Friend says:
u can tune it in by singing " this is the way we dig our nose dig our nose dig our nose"
Bryant says:
hahaha!!!
Random Friend says:
reinforce concepts by asking questions like.. How do u think it taste like?
Random Friend says:
or.. wat other materials can u use to dig ur nose?
Random Friend says:
maybe a shovel?
Bryant says:
follow up activity: self and social awareness
children are split into groups of 2. Group A will dig Group B's nose
Random Friend says:
hahah!
Random Friend says:
shit this is super funny
Bryant says:
after 5 minutes, children are to share their experiences with each other
Bryant says:
while teacher write them down in LEA style
Bryant says:
LOLL
Random Friend says:
haha!
Bryant says:
children can then decorate their sentence
Bryant says:
with the nose shit they have picked
Bryant says:
LOLL
Random Friend says:
haha
Random Friend says:
full stop
Bryant says:
hahahaha!!
LOLLLLL.
Comments please!!
Bryant.
Friday, May 08, 2009
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Saturday, May 02, 2009
Friday, April 24, 2009
Monday, April 13, 2009
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Working working working. haha.
My exam results have really really surprised me in a good way. I performed better than I had expected. I think, many people this semester have really done quite well. Really happy for them too. =)
At this rate, all of us can get a chance to further studies together. yeah.
Blogging for me has taken a step back as we all can see. haha.
my cca's concert is over. I've certainly learnt alot from this cca, in one lies passion, however, with passion comes desire. That desire is something one must look over and control to prevent it from causing unhappiness and causing one to lose friends close to them.
Also, one vital thing which I have learnt is, communication is very important, through not communicating, but suspecting one another, making assumptions as well as not clearing one's doubts with another, is not going to solve problems. But, as a matter of fact, it would make things worse.
Thus, being straight to the point and not creating senseless gossips nor incorrect accusations on people would:
firstly make things clearer to you,
secondly, understand the intention of the other party and
lastly, be able to get feedback from the other party.
Having learnt and gone through many social challenges and issues, i have improved myself since Day 1 when I joined the club. I wish for everyone in the cca to be happy and let the music we all play spread and make people enjoy it. Music is supposed to be something which makes people gather and enjoy so, let it be that way and don't let music be the reason to start off something unnecessary. =)
Best wishes,
Bryant
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Who's reading this letter
Where are you and what are you doing now?
For me who's 15 years old
There are seeds of worries I can't tell anyone
If it's a letter addressed to my future self,
Surely I can confide truly to myself
Now, it seems that I'm about to be defeated and cry
For someone who's seemingly about to disappear
Whose words should I believe in?
This one-and-only heart has been broken so many times
In the midst of this pain, I live the present
Dear you,
Thank you
I have something to tell the 15-year-old you
If you continue asking what and where you should be going
You'll be able to see the answer
The rough seas of youth may be tough
But row your boat of dreams on
Towards the shores of tomorrow
Now, please don't be defeated and please don't shed a tear
During these times when you're seemingly about to disappear
Just believe in your own voice
For me as an adult, there are sleepless nights when I'm hurt
But I'm living the bittersweet present
There's meaning to everything in life
So build your dreams without fear
Keep on believing
Seems like I'm about to be defeated and cry
For someone who's seemingly about to disappear
Whose words should I believe in?
Please don't be defeated and please don't shed a tear
During these times when you're seemingly about to disappear
Just believe in your own voice
No matter era we're in
There's no running away from sorrow
So show your smile, and go on living the present
Go on living the present
Dear you,
Who's reading this letter
I wish you happiness...
アンジェラ�アキ
拝啓 この手紙読んでいるあなたは どこで何をしているのだろう
十五の僕には誰にも話せない 悩みの種があるのです
未来の自分に宛てて書く手紙なら
きっと素直に打ち明けられるだろう
今 負けそうで 泣きそうで 消えてしまいそうな僕は
誰の言葉を信じ歩けばいいの?
ひとつしかないこの胸が何度もばらばらに割れて
苦しい中で今を生きている
今を生きている
拝啓 ありがとう 十五のあなたに伝えたい事があるのです
自分とは何でどこへ向かうべきか 問い続ければ見えてくる
荒れた青春の海は厳しいけれど
明日の岸辺へと 夢の舟よ進め
今 負けないで 泣かないで 消えてしまいそうな時は
自分の声を信じ歩けばいいの
大人の僕も傷ついて眠れない夜はあるけど
苦くて甘い今を生きている
人生の全てに意味があるから 恐れずにあなたの夢を育てて
La La La Keep on beliving
負けそうで 泣きそうで 消えてしまいそうな僕は
誰の言葉を信じ歩けばいいの?
ああ 負けないで 泣かないで 消えてしまいそうな時は
自分の声を信じ歩けばいいの
いつの時代も悲しみを避けては通れないけれど
笑顔を見せて 今を生きていこう
今を生きていこう
拝啓 この手紙読んでいるあなたが
幸せな事を願います
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
A proposed solution:
1) make time to meet up with person X, if you feel that person X has done something which you might not like and find out the reason why person X did so, rather than jumping to conclusions.
Sunday, January 04, 2009
some tips for 2009 to make it a better one than 2008:
1) Be cheerful and SMILE more
2) Think twice before spending your allowance.
3) with the recession that has come to stay, save up your allowance for emergency days!
4) plan your time well
5) Spend more time with your family
6) Be more generous, the art of sharing/giving is a joy. [i only realized this during the last quarter of 2008)
I've been working part-time during the weekends at Little Skool House. The job is pretty interesting however the hours are long. I guess, i will adapt to it soon. I'm saving up money to treat myself! hope i can treat myself during semester holidays! =DD
To my close friends: I might treat you guys too! maybe ice cream = D
Here's how i spent my 31st Dec '08 afternoons, ENJOY!
weihan
Thursday, December 25, 2008
To Jocelyn, Nikos, Dorothy: Thanks for the sms! Merry Christmas to you guys too! my sms's just could not get through to you guys. Probably because many people are sending too many messages to each other. its overloaded!
To all my sunday school students: Merry Christmas to you all! May you find happiness and share the joy of finding happiness with everyone! May all be well and happy! May we never falter in the teachings and always question 'why' instead of blindly following. See you guys real soon!
To Jin Jin: Thanks for leaving a tag behind! Merry Christmas to you too! Let's all meet up real soon!
To Jing Xiang and Ming Li: Merry Christmas to you guys! Appreciate you all for being there.
To the rest of the people who i have forgotten: MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!
anyway, this is a little Buddhist teachings that i want to tell my sunday school students, if you are non-buddhist and don't mind reading it, then please read on!
The Mangala Sutra has stated that: [i'll just point out a few, this really teaches you things in real life experiences]
This is the highest protection."
Not consorting with fools tells you that:
Fools hold wrong views, that is why they do immoral deeds, and neglect to do wholesome deeds.
In the ultimate sense, not to associate with fools means to remain aloof from foolishness. Whenever one meets others, one should focus on and encourage wise conduct, and overlook or discourage foolish conduct.
To Associate with the Wise tells you that:
Unlike fools, the wise are those who observe basic morality carefully. The wise cultivate wholesome deeds such as charity, morality, meditation, reverence, service, learning the Dhamma, etc., and they hold right views. Wise friends restrain us from evil and urge us to do good.
To Honour Those Worthy of Honour tells you that:
People are worthy of honour for many reasons. One should respect those who provide material and spiritual benefits: parents, teachers, employers, monks, public servants, etc. One should also respect those with more refined morality, greater learning, or greater age. Respect may be shown in various ways, by service, homage, etc.
"Living in a civilized land,
having made merit in the past,
directing oneself rightly:
This is the highest protection."
Living in a Suitable Locality tells you that:
To fulfil the three blessings stated above, we need to live in the right place. In some places it is difficult to meet wise and good teachers who can point out the meaning of Dhamma. [in the case for non-buddhist: it could mean good morals and conduct] Someone who meets only fools, must suffer a lot, even if they are wise and good.
Setting Oneself in the Right Course tells you that:
It takes wisdom and patience to build good character. One who fulfils all of the preceding blessings, will be naturally inclined to cultivate virtue, but most people will have to make special efforts to avoid wrong doing and correct their defects. Knowing one’s faults is a good start, but we need great humility, honesty, and patience to correct ourselves.
I won't be stating all of the sutra down, but just snippets here and there. This here, is the second last verse:
"When affected by worldly conditions,
If one’s mind remains unshaken;
Sorrowless, Stainless and secure,
This is the most auspicious sign. "
When Affected by Worldly Conditions, if One’s Mind Remains Unshaken tells you that:
When the highest path has been attained, the Arahant is unaffected by gain and loss, praise and blame, fame and defame, happiness and sorrow.
Here's a Zen Story to help you explain further: A young girl got pregnant, but did not want to reveal the father. When pressed by her parents, she said it was a monk living in the local monastery. The parents scolded the monk, but he just smiled without protesting. When a boy was born, they took him to the monk and left him. The monk devotedly cared for the boy for seven years. When the girl married, she wanted her boy back, so went and took him. The monk smiled and blessed her and the boy, wishing them every happiness. He did not sorrow over the loss of his novice.
Sorrowless tells you this:
An Arahant is completely free from sorrow, grief, and despair. “From affection springs grief, from affection springs fear. If there is no affection, whence grief, whence fear?” (From the Dhammapada, verse 212) A truly mindful meditator can enjoy similar bliss through keen awareness.
To non-buddhist: this could just mean that if you are ATTACHED to something, there will always come an end to the attachment. It's cause and effect. They come as a pair, without a cause, there won't be a effect. Similarly, with no effect, it would not have a cause nor lead to another cause. Thus, without feeling attached to something will free you from sorrow, grief and despair.
To end this whole post off, i wish everyone a merry christmas and a 2009 year!
cheers!
weihan
Monday, December 08, 2008

Ice Cream from IceKimo